Ice hockey coach jailed for affair with schoolgirl – Telegraph
September 2, 2008 at 4:45 pm | Posted in BBC, family, technology | Leave a commentIce hockey coach jailed for affair with schoolgirl – Telegraph
Tomorrow I am going on the radio talking about this story that basically comes down to a father checking up on his 15 year old daughter only to discover that she is having an affair with her ice hockey coach.
As a father it makes you want to wrap your daughter(s) up in cotton wool and never let them out of your sight – not particularly sensible.
The only reason that I had any involvement in the story was that the father used some ‘spy’ software to discover the relationship and eventually provide evidence to the police which led to the coach’s conviction for four and a half years.
Fair play to the Dad I guess, but I hope that when my daughters are older I will have a great relationship with them, that they will want to tell me what is going on, and they will understand that older men tend not to make good boyfriend material!
Naïve? – maybe, but if my family relations have broken down to the point that I am spying on my children I think I will have let myself down as person.
In the end, the technology is irrelevant, 20 years ago my Dad could have followed my sister everywhere, read her diary, opened her post and got a pretty good idea of what was going on. I doubt he would have liked what he found, and to my knowledge he never did. In this case, it was illegal and the coach rightly got sent down, but 12 months later and the father would have had no legal redress.
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digitalparents: P2P & filesharing – a parents guide
August 21, 2008 at 4:21 pm | Posted in education, factsheets, technology | Leave a commentThe orginal post/fact sheet for parents and subsequent discussion can be found @ digitalparents
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P2P & filesharing – a parents guide
‘copyrighted music has been shared…’ what to do if you get sent a letter
It has been a long wet summer and the chances are that your kids
will have spent a considerable amount of time online. ISPs are in the process of sending out letters to customers who have been identified as sharing files online. To put things in context there are around 12 million households and they are sending out around 6,000 letters… so don’t worry too much.
Filesharing is NOT illegal
However sharing copyrighted material is. The Internet allows people to share files (often music and films) not just with their friends but with an almost unlimited number of other people – anonymously. It is this large scale sharing that has attracted the attention of the copyright owners and those that represent them.
Understandably they would prefer people not to “steal” their valuable material but they face a problem in identifying who is doing it. They have various ways to track what is happening online, usually by planting files (names to look like something popular) which people download and they then track. They can “see” where the file goes – a bit like tracing it. The trouble is that instead of getting a name or an address all they can find out is an IP address. This is the unique number that is given to your Internet connection by your ISP. So now they need your ISP to tell them who is using the offending IP addresses. Unsurprisingly, ISPs are keen to keep their hard earned customers and to date have been unwilling to just to hand over their customers details. They have now agreed to write to them on behalf of the BPI, in an attempt to stop the worst offenders.
At the moment this is ALL that has been agreed, so the likelihood of any further action is remote. That is not to say someone in your home is not sharing large amounts of copyrighted material.
Visit Childnet International’s 
Filesharing – how does it work?
Filesharing (sometimes called Peer-to-Peer, P2P) technology has evolved as a very efficient way to distribute large files over the Internet. Typically if you wanted people to download your file you would put it on a server at the end of a single Internet connection. The problem was that with only 1 file and 1 connection, not many people could get it or it became very expensive to buy a big enough Internet connection to let more people get access.
Enter filesharing…
using some clever software that you download – when you upload your file, as it becomes more popular, each person that downloads it shares a little piece of it. The master “map” that tells the software where each piece is located and is updated regularly – each piece is available form a growing number of places. The filesharing network maintains the central list of “maps” allowing users to search for particular files and then download the “map” which in turn allows them to locate all the pieces of the file, the software then downloads all of the pieces and puts them back together, providing the original file.
Filesharing – what to look out for
There are two components to filesharing – the maps and the client software. Sometimes they are the same thing, sometimes not. With names like eMule, Limewire, earShare, Vuze, Kazaa, and Morpheus they are often more recognizable by their icons. If you have any of these on your computer the chances are someone is sharing files.

A more complete list can be found at Wikipedia 
Filesharing – so what?
P2P networks operate in a grey legal area, and while not necessarily illegal themselves they offer a cloak of anonymity for a range of other grey activities (there is for example plenty of porn available via P2P networks), and some of the content would be considered illegal. Adverts on these sites are usually adult in nature (gambling & dating) and needless to say there is no attention given ratings and content suitability.
Aside from tracking data planted by the copyright holders, downloaded files can also contain a unsavoury viruses and trojan programs. Up to date anti-virus protection is essential.
to find our more about filesharing visit Wikipedia
or Howstuffworks 
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start here
August 20, 2008 at 1:45 pm | Posted in education, news, research, technology | Leave a commentTags: digitalparents, Ning, start
for some time I have been playing with blogging and what’s the point. I have been writing over at digitalparents about matters to do with parents and technology (why don’t they stand up and take responsibility?) but as yet I have not found any reason to blog…
Today that changes. I will cross post all the digitalparents stuff here, because I want to see how all the indexing works and whether Ning is doing a good job on promoting content on it’s network.
stay tuned…
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